An Unusual Method of Delaying Ejaculation

If you are looking to delay ejaculation and tried absolutely everything but had Zero luck then keep reading because I might have the answer to your prayers right here in this article and you don't have to buy anything from me. This information on delaying ejaculationis all 100% FREE, just like it should be.

So what reason could you still (after all your work to delay premature ejaculation) be shooting within seconds of entering your lover when all you want to do is eliminate this annoying trait that just seems to  ruin and embarrass your attempts at making love the way you want to?

In order to answer this question I'll have to sidetrack for a second because I am making a few assumptions about you. (I apologies if they are wrong) The first being that you have tried some natural methods of curing premature ejaculation and/or medicated remedies. Because in theory both methods sound wonderful.

In brief; natural remedies promise to naturally condition you to build your tolerance of the overwhelming feelings associated with premature ejaculation, while developing your stamina. While Medication, whether pills (herbal or non herbal) or creams promise to offer a chemical solution to the same thing. And last but not least, you have sprays, creams and other topical solutions which offer a desensitising solution to delay ejaculation naturally.

But unfortunately ALL these premature ejaculation cures fall at the first hurdle because they don't take into account the human aspect to this. Which is our emotional side, our anxiety, performance pressure, our desire to make her happy without embarrassing ourselves in any way. Because we're dealing with something internal that’s at the very core of our nature: Male pride and desire which is justifiably humiliated easily in bed when our performance is in question.

So why do all these cures let us down? Because when in this overwhelming situation (which is currently uncontrollable) can fail to reduce the "pressure to perform" which builds as your arousal shoots skyward, leaving you in the knowledge that you are about to reach orgasm and theirs nothing you can do to prevent it, which build even more pressure to perform and leaves your lover disappointed and you feeling inadequate and rejected.

As if the initial anxiety of performing before sex was bad enough now you have this to contend with. The real problem here is it's extremely hard for anything to bypass this vicious circle/downward spiral of events from transpiring and no matter what you try, you're back to square one.

Here's where a little psychology will help you turn this all around. Because I've been talking to men about delaying ejaculation for years and one thing I noticed was some guys really suffer from performance anxiety and others who last about the same time in bed, just don’t care and even rate their performance. And astoundingly their lovers also rate their performance and regard them as great masters of the bedroom even though they are no good at delaying ejaculation and ejaculate in less than half the time it takes their lovers to reach orgasm, but what is their secret?

Simply put I'm not going to tell you; wait I'm just kidding of-course I am, this is just my evil sense of humour shining through:)

The reason they're masters of the bedroom, have lots of sex and satisfy their lover in every way is because they know how to make their lovers happy and concentrate not like us on lasting, but on pleasuring their lover in every way.

But we want to last in bed, so what has this got to do with you and helping you last in bed? Well if you adopt the attitude that these fore-mentioned guys have of trying to please your lover then (not that they're trying to please your lover, they've got their own: Oh you know what I mean!) then lasting in bed is no longer an issue. Because they are using multiple techniques to stimulate their partner, and penetration is just one of them.

So effectively because they have the knowledge of how to stimulate their lover to orgasm using say: their fingers, tongue etc.. their lover always receives an orgasm which is what she's after and therefore is satisfied in bed.

Now ask yourself: WHY DO YOU WANT TO LAST IN BED? To satisfy your lover right? So if you can satisfy her and give her an orgasm in bed without the need to continually thrust for as long as it takes her to reach orgasm then is "lasting" as much of an issue as it used to be?

The beauty of this is now lasting becomes so much easier to learn, because you don't need to learn it any longer, the pressure is off, removed completely. Say bye to performance anxiety, add diversity to your sex life and enjoy every sexual encounter, even the briefest ones.

"How can this help me because I can only last a minute? I am the definitive minute man…..HHHHEEEEELLLLLLLPPPPPP MMMMEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!"  Well I would advise you use this approach and if your lover's sufficiently stimulated and loosened up you should have little problem inserting yourself into her just when she's right on the brink of orgasm. And this way you will both reach orgasm together which is what she wants. You might have given her a better orgasm because you didn't enter her until the last minute and instead you've build such anticipation that penetration just when she's right at the brink of orgasm drives her crazy making the whole experience that much more powerful. You also get to look into each others eyes while reaching orgasm together which is an amazing feeling without actually delaying your ejaculation.

And through this whole wonderful experience where you had her screaming in ecstasy you won't have been put under any pressure at all because there was NEVER any need for you to hold out in any length and there are hundreds of ways of making love that don't involve penetration, which are only limited by your mind, so get more creative. And this is one of the reasons I teach lovers techniques within my book, not to pad it out but because this is how it can help you delay ejaculation.

And I'm not just teaching you this because my cures aren't any good, they are great in fact. It's just I've looked at ejaculation control from many different angles over the years and want to teach you every way possible of controlling it, and anything that's useful I will do my best to share it with you. And eliminating performance anxiety which paves the way to learning effective ejaculation control is a useful ally in this fight.

With this basic skill you can and will become a better lover, because you are not just concentrating on penetration therefore you will be able to enter your next sexual encounter with an air of manly confidence from giving your lover that elusive orgasm that changes her normal look disappointment to awe and respect for you.

But as you know this is only the beginning and eliminates the anxiety that may have prevented you learning to effectively last in bed. The next step is following a simple plan that can help you last longer in bed throughout penetrative sex un like this psychological trick I've taught you today. This was just a useful tip that can work wonders for you today.

The stuff you really want to learn will grow your sex life into something wonderful that defies belief,  and has you miraculously thrusting all day long like a champ. You will find all these answers and more within my book entitled "Cure Premature Ejaculation" which was designed to take your sex life to a whole new level (and not just delay ejaculation) that will simply blow your mind, and eliminate every concern you ever had about your performance, helping your sex life flourish for the rest of your life. And just like everything I taught you today, this is a simple skill that you'll wonder how you lived without. Check it out for yourself by clicking  on: "Cure Premature Ejaculation"

I hope that wasn't too selly, it's just I've seen how wonderful sex can be, all because I studied sexual techniques, and every man should experience these wonders. I for one know how many times a day I think about sex, it's just now your sex life can be as good as your fantasies.

Take care

Paul Lain

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